(Translator's note: This post is a continuation of a previous entry.)
Contraception via anal sex?!
We next take a look at B-kun, a salaryman in his 20's. As a young full-time employee, he's what's known as belonging to the tribe of the working poor, where saving for the future is nothing but a pipe dream as his current lifestyle needs can barely be met. Because of this, planning for marriage is not even on the table.
B-kun takes an economical outlook by doing whatever he can to prevent an accidental pregnancy such as abstaining from unprotected sex by always using a condom. On top of that, he's always one to pull out before ejaculating. He'll also thoroughly examine every nook and cranny of his partner's womanhood to ensure it's absent of semen. Justifiably, this does not make women fond of his bedtime manners.
After giving it some thought, he decided to change tracks by hopping on the anal sex route. Of course he still uses a condom, but there's no need to pull out upon ejaculation. It's simply not necessary. “Anal sex may involve buying lotion, but the cost of that is peanuts compared to the delivery room bill”.
(Translator's note: Actually, he's off. With Japan's dire population issue, pregnancy is almost free. Checkups are free and the government prepays approximately $4,000USD in labor bills. Surprisingly, most hospitals charge exactly $4,000 for the entire labor. Thus, anal sex may be where he loses money from...at least initially.)
Anal sex != Cheating?!
Now there's C-kun, a gentleman in his 30's who's having a tryst with a taken woman. Her cute reasoning for not allowing C-kun to make love to her the traditional way is that it's reserved for her boyfriend, thus it would be cheating. Thus, anal sex.
When asked if he ever has the urge to stick it in and out of her vagina, C-kun mentions he's fine with just anal as doing it the traditional way may remind his fling of her boyfriend's penis. This is common reasoning among today's hygiene-oriented people. Anal-only was actually the rule C-kun devised. His lover's boyfriend did not deem anal sex necessary nor had any interest in it.
Even today in a much more open and liberated society, anal play is still a high hurdle to jump over. It's hard to conclude that the next boom will be Anal Friends. Most likely, it will always be a small percentage of the active sexual population experimenting with it behind closed doors.
Written by Mikako Kikuchi.
Mikako Kikuchi was born on March 17th, 1977 in Morioka, Iwate Prefecture. Between the ages of 21 and 29, she worked as a cabaret club hostess, telephone sex operator, and an AV actress. She now writes for a living.
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(Translator's note: Anal play is still not incredibly common in Japan and Anal Friends are unheard of. Nevertheless, there undoubtedly are heterosexual relationships that incorporate a lot of anal activities.)
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