Catchwords have a life of their own. For example, there's the ___ Man. The earliest appearance was the Carnivorous Man and the Herbivorous Man. Now, there's also the Roll Cabbage Man (carnivorous on the outside, herbivorous on the inside), the Asparagus Egg-roll Man, and the Mountain Man. It's never-ending!
Recently, Sex Friends has entered the vernacular and a good deal of people have some familiarity with it. Kissing Friends also is something that some people can figure out by name alone though for those not in the know, it implies friends who may kiss and even share the same bed, but only in the most literal sense of the word. Human relationships keep on reinventing themselves.
What could be next? This author (Mikako Kikuchi) predicts relationships such as Fellatio Friends and Cunnilingus Friends will spring to life. However, this boom certainly seems not to be heading in that direction. Rather, since more and more young Japanese people are influenced by the trend of keeping clean, oral play is something they are seemingly distancing themselves from. Thus, oral pleasure is something they may desire, but will not act upon.
On one hand, it may be hard to tell how and when relationships like Kissing Friends came about, but going by this current constructive boom, Anal Friends coming about does make sense. As virgin to anal sex. I find it hard to believe, but there certainly a number of people nowadays who engage mainly in anal play. For them, the act of inserting a penis into the vagina is generally not carried out. Could there be male-female couples who generally forgo traditional sex in lieu of strict anal intercourse?
Does this stem from taking one's second virginity?
Our first example is A-ko, a women in Tokyo in her thirties who works at a health insurance company. She's had an Anal Friend since about half a year ago. Her partner is a previous 'Sex Friend' in his twenties. That being said, they engaged in regular intercourse.
By chance, they ran into each other some time ago, and decided to hit it up at a love hotel. However, entering the vaginal sex was turning into a difficult feat. 'Perhaps this is why I wrote him off as a Sex Friend,' contemplated A-ko. Then again, she was in the unique situation to lose her 'second virginity.'
Not wanting to burst a bubble on their carnal liaison by rejecting his poor attempts at thrusting insertions, A-ko made the suggestion that he try a bit lower. Insertion into the anus may appear difficult, but by the wonders of the human body, it was not so with A-ko. Since then, it's been nothing but smooth anal sailing for her.
Written by Mikako Kikuchi.
Mikako Kikuchi was born on March 17th, 1977 in Morioka, Iwate Prefecture. Between the ages of 21 and 29, she worked as a cabaret club hostess, telephone sex operator, and an AV actress. She now writes for a living.
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(Translator's note: Anal play is still not incredibly common in Japan and Anal Friends are unheard of. Nevertheless, there undoubtedly are heterosexual relationships that incorporate a lot of anal play as for many, it's the final frontier.)
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